Capacitar and Chi: Simple Healing Tools for Big Life Shifts

Capacitar and Chi: Simple Healing Tools for Big Life Shifts

How Gentle Touch, Energy Flow, and Daily Rituals Can Help Women Over 45 Reclaim Balance, Joy and Vitality

At Chi Flow with Jo, we know that change isn’t just something that happens in your schedule. It happens in your bones, your breath, your emotions. It shows up as insomnia, aching joints, grief you didn’t know you were carrying, or a sense of losing direction.
For many women over 45, peri-menopause and menopause don’t just bring physical shifts, they stir up deep emotional tides, a change in identity, and the question: Who am I now?

That’s why I was so honoured to sit down with holistic practitioner and long-time Chi Flow member, Trina Hanlon, for a special Energy Update Podcast. Trina will be leading July’s mid-month health talk (free for Chi Flow with Jo members) where she’ll guide us in a full practice of the Capacitar Finger Hold Technique.

But in our podcast, we talked honestly about:
– Overwhelm and the nervous system on constant high alert
– Loss of self-worth and purpose after retirement, caregiving, or job changes
– Hidden grief, anger, fear and shame that turn inward and lead to stagnation

Trina beautifully shared her journey of moving from burnout and busy-ness to a place of embodiment, healing and joy, thanks to simple tools that reconnect us to our life force energy.

What is Capacitar?

Capacitar (from the Spanish “to empower”) is a body-based, global healing practice developed over 30 years ago to help individuals and communities release trauma, reduce stress and restore balance. It shares roots with the same principles that guide Qi Gong and Chinese Medicine: the body holds energy, and that energy can be moved.

One of its most accessible tools is the Finger Hold Practice:

  • Thumb → for grief and loss
  • Index finger → for fear and panic
  • Middle finger → for anger
  • Ring finger → for worry
  • Little finger → for low self-esteem

You simply hold each finger gently for 2–5 minutes, breathing and waiting until you feel a shift. It’s subtle, but powerful. And it’s discreet enough to do in public—on the train, in a meeting, even in bed at night.

It’s also a practice children instinctively know: sucking their thumbs for comfort, twiddling fingers when nervous. This is ancient body wisdom. Capacitar helps us return to it.

How Capacitar Connects with Chinese Medicine

In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), blocked emotions and stagnant energy are root causes of many symptoms experienced during menopause:

  • Liver Qi Stagnation → irritability, anger, menstrual irregularities
  • Spleen Qi Deficiency → fatigue, worry, digestive issues
  • Lung Qi Imbalance → grief, low immunity, shallow breathing

By holding the fingers, we stimulate the meridians that run through the body and out through the fingertips. Just like acupressure and Qi Gong, Capacitar creates flow

As Trina said in the podcast: “The change we want to see in others must begin with ourselves.”

Reclaiming Your Energy After 45

Trina’s story is one that many women in our Chi Flow community will recognise:

  • Giving too much to others and neglecting herself
  • Feeling “too busy” to stop, rest, or receive help
  • Reconnecting to her joyful, curious 5-year-old self

The Capacitar practice, along with daily Qi Gong, touch, and food medicine, helped her come home to her body.

You can do this too.

Even if:

  • – You’re exhausted and not sleeping well
  • – You feel like you’ve lost your spark
  • – You don’t know where to start

You can begin by pressing a point. Holding a finger. Taking a breath. Stretching before you get out of bed, just like Trina does every morning.

Full Capacitar Practice

This mid-month health talk last July 2025, Petrina will guide us through a full Capacitar practice including:

  • The Finger Holds
  • The Lao Gong point (Palace of Weariness) for spiritual reconnection
  • Gentle self-touch and lymphatic clearing
  • Breathwork for balancing the nervous system

This session is FREE for Chi Flow with Jo members.

Over time, this restores the flow of life force energy, allowing you to access joy, creativity, and mobility in the hips.

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Remember: Change doesn’t have to be dramatic. It can start with your own two hands.

Let your Chi Flow. Let your spirit rise. Let your energy return to you.

Come move with us. Come soften. Come reclaim your flow.  Sign up for the LIVE Free Class at the end of the month and we’ll send you the recording too.

 

Self-administered acupressure or Chinese Medicine is not a substitute for visits to qualified healthcare practitioners.

Knowing how to treat yourself and your loved ones with complimentary therapies like acupressure can be greatly beneficial and convenient. However, for serious and chronic conditions, you’ll want to visit an Shiatsu therapist / Acupuncturist or other qualified healthcare practitioner who can develop a treatment plan based on your unique medical history and combination of symptoms.  

The information provided should not be considered medical advice.

Build a Defensive Glow as we Leave Lockdown

Build a Defensive Glow as we Leave Lockdown

As we come out of lockdown, beginning to mix and mingle with other human beings, albeit at a safe distance, our immune system is going to need to be stronger than ever. There are lots of opinions out there about how to strengthen our resistance to the Coronavirus and without doubt, bad diet is certainly one of the most frequent causes of poor immunity. Viruses usually enter the body via the lung and are detected in the main by receptors in the Large Intestine.

Eat Pungent Foods to Absorb Vitamin C

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, the Lung & Large are paired together. The flavour of the food to strengthen these organs is pungent, so food in this category include onions, garlic, ginger, chilli, turmeric, cayenne pepper, coriander, and cloves. Many of these foods are packed with selenium, zinc and vitamin C. Onions especially have phytochemicals that act as stimulants for Vitamin C within the body.

Vitamin C is the go-to chemical when we need a boost of energy or support the body getting through the flu or a cold. The pungent flavour, helps the absorption of Vitamin C found in many foods such as parsley, kale, broccoli, berries, tomatoes and red pepper. Remember the body cannot store Vitamin C so it’s essential to eat every day and mix it up with the pungent onion family that help with absorption.

Eat Naturally Sweet Foods to Boost the Immune System

The 5element system in Chinese Medicine is a holistic system that helps us understand and help our body to be the healthiest and happiest it can be. The Spleen-Pancreas is the mother of the Lung and the Immune System. It’s flavour is sweet which corresponds with western medicine as it is the Spleen-Pancreas that govern insulin and blood sugar.

If we have been overindulging in the sweet stuff during lockdown, which includes alcohol high in sugars, now is the time to address this as sugar significantly reduces the ability of the body to protect itself. Vitamin C and sugar compete to use insulin to travel around the body and into the tissues of cells. Usually, sugar wins and so there is less absorption and use of vitamin C to repair and protect the body.

White blood cells that protect the body against invading infections also have their defensive function significantly impaired by overconsumption of refined sugars. So instead of reaching for the biscuits go for naturally sweet foods such as parsnip, sweet potato, butternut squash and carrot. These help spleen function by releasing their sugars slowly and regulating insulin levels.

Reduce Cravings, Tension and Toxicity with Simple Hand Exercises

Connection and physical touch is really beneficial to this organ and reducing sugar cravings. Unfortunately, hugs and tactile behavior is the thing we may have been lacking during lockdown. Instead, we may have been filling this emotional hole with chocolate, cake and banana bread. As a Shiatsu therapist, I see how beneficial touch is for health. It helps relieve pain and tension. It relaxes the body improving neurological function, digestion, sleep and breathing while releasing fear, so something we all need as we move through uncertain times. Don’t wait for someone else to touch you, practice simple self-shiatsu, massage, beginning with your hands.

There are potent acupressure points around the body that have a direct effect on organs and well-being. Large Intestine 4 is a strong elimination point that helps if you have fatigue or the is body overloaded with sugar and toxins. It also helps reduce spasms in the colon that can come after eating or during times of stress.

Find the point by pressing the thumb against the side of the first finger to make a mountainous, fleshy bulge. At the top of the peak you will find Large Intestine 4 (LI4). Release the thumb from the forefinger, pressing and massaging into the point, with your other hand, until you feel it softening and supple. You mustn’t press too hard, you aren’t digging a hole and you don’t want to bruise your hand, you are simply connecting with your body. Feel your lungs fill with oxygen, your diaphragm moving and your intestines relaxing as you press into the point.
You have two hands so make sure you find LI4 on your other hand too. Rub and massage all over your hands, giving a squeeze to the fingertips to stimulate blood and energy flow. Clasp your hands together, rubbing and rolling the heels of the palms so all the bones and flesh of your hands flex and are physically manipulated.
This self- massage boosts spleen function sending the energy upwards towards the lung and together these organs form your barrier of defense. Like a glow surrounding your body this defensive chi-energy from these healthy organs will help protect us as we emerge from lockdown and enter the world.

For more information on Shiatsu Conscious Cooking or to buy the books full of recipes, tips and Chinese Medicine visit www.joannefaulkner.ie or find her on Facebook @joannefaulknerShiatsu where she offers Free Morning Chi Gong sessions at 8:30 am during lockdown


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The weight we carry isn’t just on our hips, it’s in our hearts.
Feeling like you “want to be minded” is your body’s cry for nurture, not discipline.

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Self-administered acupressure or Chinese Medicine is not a substitute for visits to qualified healthcare practitioners.

Knowing how to treat yourself and your loved ones with complimentary therapies like acupressure can be greatly beneficial and convenient. However, for serious and chronic conditions, you’ll want to visit an Shiatsu therapist / Acupuncturist or other qualified healthcare practitioner who can develop a treatment plan based on your unique medical history and combination of symptoms.

The information provided should not be considered medical advice.