At 34, I had a rough birth with my twin boys. That’s me in the photo. It’s taken just after putting up the Christmas tree so I know I had another 3 weeks and a kidney infection before I gave birth to them on January 5th 2003. They weight 6.7 and 6.3 llb’s – that’s a lot of baby for a 5foot woman to carry. So when they were delivered via emergency C-section at 40 weeks after 2 days labour, I had nothing else to give. My body didn’t even have the energy to contract my uterus so I haemorrhaged and almost died. Yes I saw the white light and someone had a chat with me. It was an amazing experience and being so knackered I wasn’t sure I wanted to come back. But back I came to look after my twin boys and run the environmental empowerment organisation I owned, The company worked with the regeneration of Ballymun, well known for its high levels of unemployment, drug usage and high-rise tower blocks. It could be a dangerous and stressful area of Dublin to work in. I over identified with the success of the projects and worked way too much. I had qualified as a shiatsu practitioner in 2002 but this job was where the money was. When the twins were 2, I found out my partner was having an affair within the company. I was just too exhausted to carry on. I turned the business into a community development. I left him and my business.
That’s when my Peri-Menopause symptoms started. I would get so dizzy I thought I was going to black out. The first one happened on a busy motor way which triggered panic attacks leaving me feeling anxious all the time. My sleep pattern was disrupted and I was so exhausted I would forget my children’s names. I felt so isolated and alone, I often thought I wasn’t going to make it. My whole body hurt. I was only 5ft tall and weighed 14 stone because I comfort ate all the wrong food.
Luckily I had my background of Chinese Medicine and Shiatsu to guide me. I started to improve my diet following Traditional Chinese Medicine Guidelines. I began to practice a Chi Gong and receive regular shiatsu. I started with baby steps, little by little. I’m 52 now with no panic attacks, and no anxiety. I sleep well, and can remember what I walked into a room for. My skin is glowing and I have no grey hairs. Keeping the weight off can be tricky but I know what to do when the pounds start climbing on and if I have the odd bad nights sleep I know which points to press, which foods to eat and which Chi Gong exercises to do to ensure that things come back to balance naturally. My life is good, I have a sense of purpose, I wake up feeling rested, and I am happy.
The problem for me is that I was suffering Adrenal exhaustion. My kidneys, had nothing left in the tank to balance my hormones naturally, which meant I was either on overdrive with my heart bouncing out of my chest or too exhausted to move of the sofa. For you it might be your liver making you feel bloated or gaining weight around your middle or your spleen out of balance, craving sweet food to give you energy but with a brain fog to see nothing clearly.
Which is why I created FRAZZLED TO FABULOUS with 1-1 direct consultations, daily check with Q&A, group sessions covering intermittent fasting and facial diagnosis to name but two topics plus lots of food, acupressure and chi gong videos, so that you get the solution for your individual symptoms. We are often told we need to endure or just wait for the menopause to pass, but that can take years. Don’t regret getting older – this is your time to shine. All month I am giving free classes for the Menopause – to receive the live link and the recordings sent to your email – simply CLICK HERE and enter your email into the form.
- The queen of stripping: taking off layer after layer, with skill and speed when a hot flush hits?
- Too exhausted to do anything, but when your head hits the pillow, you find it impossible to sleep?
- A supplement junkie, trying everything to thicken hair, reduce hot flushes, help you sleep, stop your joint pain but nothing works long term?
- Too nervous to go out because anxiety and heart palpitations appear out of nowhere?
- Slowly gaining weight around your middle but your arms and legs are staying skinny?
It’s never too early and it’s never too late to make changes so you can be more confident, less anxious, get fitter and stronger, find your purpose, say goodbye to self limiting beliefs and negative emotions.
YOU CAN DO IT !
Your best life experiences are still to come
“The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step” Lao Tzu – Chinese Medicine Philosopher.